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Self-Awareness Can Help You Overcome Insecurity

Self-awareness can help you overcome insecurity because, the more you know yourself deep inside, the fewer reasons you’ll have to be insecure. Self-aware people understand themselves and their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors and are able to focus their energy in a positive direction. So how can you reduce insecurity? Let’s take a look.

Insecurity comes from deep within you and is often caused by messages you heard early in life. You can feel insecure even when things are going well in your life because it never goes away unless you heal it. The difficulty arises when your inner dialogue gets in the way of being a happy, balanced or effective person.

So what do you do if you regularly experience insecurity? If you’re really ready to move past it, you’ll work on understanding why you feel the way you do (increasing your self-awareness) and ask for help when you don’t have the answers. There is a pervasive myth that working on your issues should be avoided at all costs. That approach never leads to happiness because the issue never goes away and often gets worse the more you try to ignore it. No matter how much you try to stuff it back in the box, it always pops out again, often at inappropriate times. Doing the work is the only way to alleviate the situation.

Feeling secure comes from building your self-awareness. It’s the process of finding out who you are, what you love to do, what brings you joy, your interests, your passions in life and the issues that you need to resolve to move forward. When you understand yourself better, you make decisions based on feeling powerful and happy rather than insecure.

What will you do to build your self-awareness and reduce your insecurity?

Cheers,

Guy

Moving Past Criticism with Self-Awareness

April 5, 2024 / The Self-Awareness Guy / Consciousness of Self, Self-Awareness / awareness, lacking self-awareness, self-aware, self-awareness meaning, self-knowledge / Leave a Comment

When you’re actively developing and practicing self-awareness, you’re able to accurately assess your strengths and areas for improvement, which helps you worry less about what other people say, including if they criticize you.

We’ve all been on the receiving end of criticism and, for some people, it can be debilitating and even paralyzing. The good news is you can be self-aware and learn how to listen to the criticism, focus it in a different way, and use it to become a stronger person. Here is what some smart people have to say about the subject.

David Brinkley:

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her.

Elbert Hubbard:

To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, be nothing.

Franklin P. Jones:

Honest criticism is hard to take, particularly from a relative, a friend, an acquaintance, or a stranger.

Henri Frederic Amiel:

We are never more discontented with others than when we are discontented with ourselves.

A significant part of self-awareness is the ability to think and behave positively regardless of what people say. What will you do to move past criticism?

Cheers,

Guy

Being Happy and Self-Awareness

March 26, 2024 / The Self-Awareness Guy / Consciousness of Self, Self-Awareness / awareness, self-aware, self-awareness examples, self-awareness meaning

There’s a big difference between saying you’re happy and behaving in ways that reflect genuine joy, fulfillment and balance. If you’re actively developing and practicing self-awareness, you know that finding happiness is an ongoing learning and growth process. You can’t just wake up one day and declare that you’re happy, it requires gradual, deliberate and conscious work. Here are some questions you can ask yourself to see if you’re genuinely happy:

In what ways does my current career reflect my dreams?
In what ways do I feel long-term happiness?
In what ways am I actively healing my unresolved issues?
In what ways can I like myself more?
In what ways can I improve how I treat myself?
In what ways am I learning and growing each day?
In what ways am I building self-awareness each day?
In what ways am I becoming emotionally healthy each day?
In what ways can I improve how I interact with others?

Each day is an opportunity to become a more well-rounded individual in your personal or professional life. The key to being authentically happy is to move beyond temporary or superficial contentment to feeling fulfilled on a deeper level. You’ll know you’re genuinely happy when you think and function in a way that reflects who you really are deep inside. What will you do to be more self-aware and truly happy?

Cheers,

Guy

Self-Awareness and Being Kind to Yourself

March 16, 2024 / The Self-Awareness Guy / Consciousness of Self, Self-Awareness, Self-Awareness Comes From / awareness, self-aware

People are frequently quite hard on themselves and are constantly concerned about how well they are doing things. The key in life is to develop your self-awareness so you can truly understand your strengths and areas for improvement instead of just berating yourself over everything. Try this three-step process every day to start being kind with yourself.

1. Praise yourself for something you did today.
2. Do something positive that you enjoy.
3. Repeat every day.

Getting in the habit of doing these simple things can feel different at first but, over time, it leads to us doing things that make us feel good. It’s great when we can rely on ourselves rather than others to make us feel good. As you build your self-awareness you will begin to understand how to channel your emotions, thoughts, and behavior in a positive direction.

Next time you feel completely stressed out and about to explode, take a moment and try these steps instead of being hard on yourself. You are an amazing human being who deserves caring and affection. What will you do to be more self-aware and kind to yourself?

Cheers,

Guy

Self-Awareness Means Looking at the Difficult Things in Life

March 6, 2024 / The Self-Awareness Guy / Consciousness of Self, Self-Awareness / awareness, define self-awareness, examples of self-awareness, self-aware, self-awareness meaning, self-knowledge, what is self-awareness

A lot of times self-awareness is about looking at the difficult things in your life. These are the areas that perhaps you don’t want to bring up or examine. The challenge is to find a way to deal with the difficult issues in your life so you can move past them and live without their influence. It’s like finally healing a wound that’s been hurting for a long time.

The vast majority of people live their entire lives without resolving the pain from their past. This limits their ability to grow and succeed. Think of how amazing your life would be if you became self-aware to the point that you genuinely loved yourself and were able to live as the real you. Too many people get stuck living a life that they settle for instead of doing the hard work necessary to live a conscious, fulfilling life. Self-awareness requires effort but it allows you to let go of all the junk that holds you back.

If you’re afraid of looking at the difficult things in life, that’s normal. The choice you have is whether you decide to move past those things or you let them dictate what you should do. Self-aware people choose to deal with the challenges so they can live wonderfully healthy and expansive lives.

Cheers,

Guy

Characteristics of Someone with Self-Awareness

March 6, 2024 / The Self-Awareness Guy / Self-Awareness, Self-Awareness Comes From / awareness, awareness meaning, examples of self-awareness, self-aware

People frequently ask me to describe the characteristics of someone with self-awareness, here are some examples:

They’re in touch with their emotions and are comfortable with them, even when they’re unpleasant or difficult.
They’re comfortable with other people’s emotions.
Their thinking matches objective reality; they don’t make up scenarios that aren’t based on demonstrable fact.
They’re able to manage their thinking patterns and move even their most difficult thoughts in a positive direction.
Their actions lead in a positive direction for them and for others.
They deeply understand their strengths as well as their areas for improvement.
They’re always working on becoming the best version of themselves possible.
They work hard to heal their inner hurts, preferably by going to a professional therapist.
They’re genuinely happy with who they are deep inside.
They follow their dreams.
They live as themselves.
They’re open to new people, ideas, challenges and changes.
They relate well to others and build positive relationships.
They treat themselves and others with kindness and compassion.
They make the world a better place because they’re so comfortable with themselves that they’re able to freely help others.

Imagine your life if you possessed any number of these qualities. The wonderful thing is you can achieve them all if you choose to actively develop your self-awareness.

Cheers,

Guy

Self-Awareness and Your Quality of Life

February 15, 2024 / The Self-Awareness Guy / Consciousness of Self / awareness, examples of self-awareness, self-aware, self-awareness meaning, self-knowledge, what is self-awareness

Your level of self-awareness greatly affects your quality of life. The more you’re in touch with why you think, feel and do the things you do, the more consciously and happily you can live. Consider these two examples of people with different perspectives:

Person A goes through life appearing to be confident, is outwardly successful, seems to have everything anyone would dream of having but is deeply insecure and realizes it’s all a mirage.
Person B lives life with confidence, sometimes has doubts and shows vulnerability, but when he (or she) looks in the mirror, he knows he’s looking at a real person who is living authentically.

The difference between these two examples is that one person has to pretend to be someone else. Genuine fulfillment and happiness arise from looking at your strengths and areas for improvement and continuously working on being the real you inside and outside. What will you do to live a quality life?

Cheers,

Guy